Welcome to my Lifestyle Parenting Blog, where I explore topics related to chronic illnesses such as ME/CFS, chronic pain, and fibromyalgia while embracing a passion for yoga, books, and blogging.

5 Lessons I learnt My Kinship Daughter Taught Me
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5 Lessons I learnt My Kinship Daughter Taught Me

We’ve had Special Guardianship for 10 years now… wow, where has time gone. As with most, if not all SGO’s the child comes into your life completely unexpected, and with little or no notice. It flips your life completely upside down (that’s an understatement).  

Over the 10 years I have reflected on the journey and the lessons I learnt My Kinship Daughter Taught Me:

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Being a Mum Can Be Hard
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Being a Mum Can Be Hard

Whether you’re a mum by birth, legal guardian, step-mum, or kinship, its bloody hard.

Yes, being a Mum is hard, but it’s also amazing. It is full of oxymorons, fear, doubt, joy, love, and so much more; it makes you feel like a failure, but then makes you feel like you are super human. It makes you feel like you are crazy. And makes you feel like the most patient person in the world, but makes you feel like the most impatient person in the world.

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The Unwelcome Transition To a Chronic Illness
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The Unwelcome Transition To a Chronic Illness

Transitioning from a fast-paced, demanding job to a slower-paced life due to chronic illness can be a significant change. The shift in responsibilities, daily routines, and priorities can be challenging to adapt to, especially when lifestyle changes are necessitated by conditions like chronic fatigue and chronic pain.

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Appointment Fatigue
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Appointment Fatigue

The past couple of years have involved GP / consultant appointment, after GP / consultant appointment, test, after test as well as results and referrals. It’s all so very exhausting.

"Appointment fatigue" is a phrase used colloquially to describe the exhaustion or weariness that can arise from having numerous healthcare appointments, particularly when managing a chronic illness. It can be physically and emotionally draining over time.

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Child friendly updates for you garden this summer
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Child friendly updates for you garden this summer

With the summer-time here it’s time to make your garden the place to be. Put in the work now and you’ll be able to sit back and enjoy those precious moments of sunshine throughout the school term. Whether you have a large garden or a petite yard, these outdoor updates will make you and your children fall in love with your garden a little more.

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7 Things Man's Best Friend Needs From Their Owners
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7 Things Man's Best Friend Needs From Their Owners

There's no doubt about it, our dogs are our best friends. They provide us with companionship, unconditional love, and furry cuddles when we need them most. In return, they ask for very little - a comfy bed, regular meals, and the odd belly rub here and there. However, there are certain things that every dog needs from their owners in order to be happy and healthy.

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Coiled Sausage Bake with Toffee Apple Gravy, Mash and Spring Greens
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Coiled Sausage Bake with Toffee Apple Gravy, Mash and Spring Greens

This Autumn, a coiled sausage in puff pastry with smooth toffee apple sauce is sure to warm you up.

Swaledale Butchers sent us a voucher to use on their website, and we opted for the Cumberland Coiled Sausages, so we could share with you one of our mouth-watering family friendly and fun dishes we make; a meaty, rich and creamy meal. What more could you want during these colder months?!

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OpenTable Review
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OpenTable Review

Finding a restaurant can be a challenge, especially when you are looking to try something new, something you not visited before or noticed before…

OpenTable is a reservation service for restaurants. The booking site is used by customers as a helpful and easy solution for busy restaurants and busy customers. OpenTable allows you to view the restaurants availability and to book as well as manage your table reservation. It is a must have app to have, especially if you like dining out.

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4 Ways to Add Value to Your Home
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4 Ways to Add Value to Your Home

Do you dream of a bigger house with more room, better amenities, and better value? If so, adding value to your home might be the answer. There are many ways to increase the value of your home. It involves finding out what it is worth now and how much potential it has for future resale. Many buyers today require homes that have been updated with newer appliances, flooring, cabinets, and even plumbing in some cases. There are several ways to add value to your home. Here are 4 ways you can increase the value of your home:

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4 Tips For Better Organising That Book Collection
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4 Tips For Better Organising That Book Collection

You don’t have to have time to be a voracious reader in order to love books, sometimes its those who can only read a chapter a day or every other day that have the most rewarding and incredible experiences with the books they choose to indulge in.

However, anyone who appreciates reading will understand that simply having books around, collecting works by a favourite author or treating themselves to a new release every month can quickly get out of control. You don’t have to be a hoarder to be covered in a pile of books as soon as you wake up, seemingly accosted by your collection without you realising.

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How I am Keeping my Dogs Cool in This Heat
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How I am Keeping my Dogs Cool in This Heat

Hottest day ever (in the UK), luckily I live on the coast, so we do get a bit of a sea breeze, which is a godsend!! The kids have gone to school in their P.E Kits, packed with plenty of bottles of water, and suncream. But my poor beagles…they are not enjoying this heat and I am definitely not taking them out on a walk, It’s not fair to do that to them. It’s simple to hot and the risk of heat stroke is real, as well as burnt paws, it’s just not a risk worth doing. Also, they wouldn’t enjoy a walk in this heat.

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GEOMAG Review
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GEOMAG Review

We were sent a bundle of Geomag sets to try out and review!

STEM toys in our household are a favourite, they offer challenging, interesting, motivating and inspiring play and are lots of fun! And, Geomag constructions toy offer all of these things and more, including being made with recycled plastic.

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5 Ways To Treat Your Dog This Summer
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5 Ways To Treat Your Dog This Summer

The warmer weather that the summer brings means you can spend lots of enjoyable hours outdoors with your dog. The summer sun will make you feel happy, and you'll want to spend much of your time outside soaking up the sun.

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